I just wanted to send a little email to say a big thank you for the Family Constellations day last weekend. I had no idea what to expect but it was an amazing experience.
I've felt a lightness in my communication with my mum this week, and feel like a weight has been lifted. I also heard from my brother over in Thailand today and he says that earlier on this week,
his wife accepted that she wants to get some help for how she's feeling. It's been almost 2 years of quite significant depression and it's the first time she's been open to this, despite my brother
trying to get her help on so many occasions. I know this could all be coincidental but in the photos I've been sent from my brother this week, Josh is so smiley and happy (he usually looks so serious).
I just wanted to share the feedback and thank you both.
Thankyou so much for taking the time to help facilitate such a powerful and enlightening event in such a professional, warm and safe space.
I initially felt very apprehensive for a number of reasons, but once I relaxed into the group I started to feel safe which is a credit to you and Rafe and how the individuals issues
were addressed in such a sensitive and caring manner
Personally , and I am happy for you to share anything I say (anonymously under my initials) is that not only from personal therapy, but also as an accredited counsellor and psychotherapist
for over twenty years , that I feel I have finally found the 'missing piece' in my own 'story' in my 'forgotten' brother and my children's uncle which I realise now will play such
a part in their own footprints.
I just wanted to say thankyou xx
Really hope to cross paths with you again and will be looking out for more events
Namaste! A
Wow, what a day, I'll never forget it. You are so gifted, talented, thank you soo much, and thank you for sharing this with me and everyone else who's open to be curious.
It was truly a life changing experience for me. I have always struggled with who to identify with, Hannah, the real me or Michelle, the child my adoptive parents couldn't have.
You helped me to see that I'm both and a bit more… I'll be back! as I said, My onion is a big one! Thanks again Big hugs Mx
Rafe, heartfelt thanks. What a profound experience to witness the power of your work and the energy created within the fields.
I have spent my day warmed by the thoughts and feelings I now hold for my dad, and there is no resentment or anger. It is truly gone.
Some part of me needs to analyse the process too much, figure out the 'secret formula' to all this so that it makes complete logical sense to me. Another, greater, part is settling in to the beauty of how I feel today and hopefully all the days ahead, not needing to be able to decipher the exact science behind this shift.
Maybe my subconscious was able to reprogram and put the jigsaw together differently, so to speak, as a result of seeing the visual representation of my family constellation and hearing the words from the resonators.
I'm incredibly grateful. Pleasure to meet you and be a part of something so meaningful and compassion-centred.
'The Family Constellations session was unlike anything I had previously done and I have
attended a lot of workshops over the years. The purpose of the session, in my opinion,
was to enable rapid healing of historic trauma through minimal intervention by the
participant. As opposed to talking therapy, the participant does not need to replay the
details of the old narrative to find some resolution. Instead, the participant observes
the interactions between the family resonators and watches how they each interact with
one another. This enables the participant to see it from each family member's perspective,
allowing a greater degree of objectivity, compassion and understanding. On a personal level,
I was able to find some peace in my relationship with my estranged brother, just by observing
the situation from his perspective and seeing the world through his eyes. When the resonator
in place off my brother placed her hands on my shoulders, I genuinely felt on some level
we had found peace. It was quite extraordinary. Rafe and Janey created a very safe space
and their facilitation was excellent".
I cannot recommend enough Rafe's work - every time I have attended one of his courses, I have got more out of it than expected.
In my opinion Family Constellations Therapy goes far deeper into the subconscious than any other practice I have tried. Karen
Rafe took me through family constellations in a super profound way.
He was able to channel and open me up to things I already knew intuitively, but to have things validated and shift was huge for me.
It's allowed me to cut all ties and chords associated with family members, use my voice properly and have deep compassion and forgiveness.
Thank you for your work Rafe it's so important. Emma Marshall, www.e-marshall.com
For me the Money Mindset Workshop was practical, enjoyable and really valuable. It helped me to understand some of the hang ups that
I had around the subject of money and being more affluent.
Overall it was worth so much more than the price of the course.
Paul Barlow - therapist
The Money Mindset workshop with Rafe & Jenny really helped me identifying the mental blocks and conditioning from the past. It has given me a different perspective in
viewing money matters and better ways of handling money matters, which I am learning to put into practice. It was all handled in a compassionate, non-judgemental,
sensitive way. Thank you Rafe & Jenny.
